Everyone loves a bargain. Later they realise what it cost them.
The truth? Low prices often lead to low energy, low standards, and low trust. But when you charge more—fairly, transparently, and confidently—something shifts. The buyer becomes more engaged. The seller steps up. And what begins as a transaction becomes a shared commitment to something better.
That’s the quiet secret behind higher prices: they dignify the exchange.
The Rolex Principle
Nobody buys a Rolex to tell the time. They buy it to tell a story.
Luxury isn’t about function. It’s about meaning.
Rolex. Four Seasons. Bentley. These brands don’t sell goods. They sell signals, of care, of status, of trust. And those signals only work because the price says: this matters.
A Casio will do the job. A Rolex affirms the journey.
The Village Post Office Paradox
We’ve all seen it: a tiny village shop selling milk, jam, and bread at prices twice that of a supermarket. And yet, customers keep coming back.
Why?
Because they’re not buying milk.
They’re buying meaning.
Local sourcing. Handmade quality. A human face behind the counter.
The higher price isn’t just accepted. It’s welcomed. Because the customer isn’t looking for cheap. They’re looking for real.
What Really Happens When You Charge More
Clients become partners.
Those who pay more tend to be more engaged, more respectful, and more ready to do the work.
You raise your standards.
Higher pricing demands better delivery. You show up more prepared, more focused, more present.
You eliminate mismatches.
Bargain-hunters become someone else’s problem. You work with people who value what you do.
The work feels better.
Pricing yourself with confidence allows for joy, not just survival.
How to Raise Your Prices Without Losing Your Self Respect.
Focus on excellence, not excess.
Rather than charging more just because you can. Charge more because you’ve earned it.
Make the value visible.
Share the story. Explain the care. Let people see what’s behind the curtain.
Anchor your price in transformation.
People don’t buy services. They buy outcomes. Make those outcomes clear.
Own your worth.
You’re not overcharging. You’re stopping undercharging.
Frequently Asked Questions
Q: What if I lose customers?
You might, but you’ll lose the ones who don’t value your work. And you’ll gain ones who do.
Q: Do I need to justify the increase?
Yes, through quality, consistency, and communication. Not with apologies, but with clarity.
Q: What if I’m not confident yet?
Confidence comes from alignment. Get clear on the value you offer. Price becomes easier when your offer is real.
Q: Is this just about money?
Not at all. It’s about respect, yours and theirs. When both sides invest more, both sides grow more.
Q: What if my competitors charge less?
Let them. Competing on price is a race to the bottom. Competing on trust is a climb to the top.
Raise your price. Raise your presence. Raise your standard.
You weren’t meant to be cheap.
You were meant to be true.
True to your time. True to your work. True to the value you bring.
So the next time you hesitate, remember:
It’s not about what you charge.
It’s about what you stand for.
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Stephen Bray mentors people navigating change in business, family, or self. He helps them find the signal in the chaos. Learn more here.
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