How do you build a successful family business when you're full of ideas but bored by the basics?

The Boring Truth Behind Brilliant Businesses

Family businesses are powered by heart, hustle—and, too often, heroic multitasking.

You dream in colour, but someone’s got to fix the wiring.

If you’ve ever thought:

“I’m too creative for this admin stuff,”

you're not wrong.

But here’s the truth most creatives learn the hard way:

Boring keeps the business running. Creative makes it worth running. You need both.

Two Minds, One Mission

You know that accountant who lights up over VAT returns?

Let them shine.

Because when you, the founder, try to be CFO, chief marketer, and kitchen porter, everything starts to wobble.

Great businesses match energy to responsibility.

One builds the scaffolding. The other paints the mural.

When they work in rhythm, you don’t just survive. You scale.

The Hidden Cost of Misfit Roles

Here’s a scene I see too often:

Your bright-eyed niece joins the firm. She’s got fire in her belly and dreams on the back of every napkin.

So you… give her payroll.

Or stocktaking.

Or a six-month Excel project.

She doesn’t complain—she’s family. But slowly, her light dims.

And you lose her not because she wasn’t good enough but because you misjudged her gifts.

Creativity doesn’t die all at once. It dies of misassignment.

How to Stop That Happening

Match tasks to temperament.

Not everyone thrives on structure. Some thrive on sparks.

Don’t assume family equals fit.

Being born into the business doesn’t mean they’re built for every role.

Get external advice.

Hire a retired HR manager. Use a freelancer.

A few hundred pounds can save thousands in wasted potential.

The 70/20/10 Rule for Sustainable Growth

Forget constant reinvention.

Here’s what top businesses actually do:

70% of energy goes into what already works

20% into adjacent ideas

10% into experiments that might fail

Innovation without a foundation is just noise.

But build on your strengths, and that’s music.

Why “Boring” is Beautiful

That spreadsheet your bookkeeper loves?

It keeps the lights on.

That system that “just works”?

It protects your margins.

That routine you’ve outgrown?

It’s the reason you’re still here.

Boring isn't the enemy of brilliance. It's the platform for it.

Frequently Asked Questions

Q: What if I don’t have the budget to hire help?

Start small. One freelance session a month can help assign roles better than guesswork ever will.

Q: How do I stop feeling resentful of the admin side?

Respect it. It’s not your enemy. It’s your safety net. Schedule your creative time around it, not instead of it.

Q: Should I force younger family members to “earn their stripes” by doing the dull work?

Let them prove themselves, yes in ways that reveal their strengths, rather than bury them.

Q: Can a boring business still be exciting to run?

Absolutely. When the foundation is steady, you’re free to create, grow, and take calculated risks.

Respect the routine, and it will reward your imagination.

Review your own role and those around you. Are you building from strengths or assigning by convenience?

Then revisit the FAQs above and ask yourself:

Am I nurturing creativity or just surviving the chaos?

Because in the end, success isn’t about brilliance.

It’s about doing the boring bits—brilliantly.

Stephen Bray helps founders untangle what’s really going on beneath the surface — then make better choices from there. Meet the man behind the mirror here.

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