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Alex Jeffreys’ Coaching: How I Came To Live Rent Free On A Mediterranean Beach

By Stephen On December 27, 2008 Under Alex Jeffreys Coaching

 When I sent Jobey out amongst all the blogs being created by Alex Jeffreys’ students he came back bemused. Some of them like that of Gary Simpson are packed with information and resources that have been given open-heartedly to help others.

Moreover, Gary has his own style, Jobey refers to blogs like this as ‘Originals’.

Then there are those blogs that scrupulously follow Alex Jeffreys’ style. Jobey put Dean Holland’s blog in that category. It shares much in common with Alex Jeffreys’ own blog in terms of its simplicity of design and style of blog posts. Creating a blog like this is the ’safest’ option for Alex’s students because the student is following a proven system.

Finally there are blogs that are all over the place. Some are hosted in the wrong way. They’ve been created in Blogger, or some other free media so the owner can find his blog taken down at anytime the blog doesn’t suit the media provider. Others contain virtually no content, except for lengthy blogrolls cloned from Garry Parkes website.

How is it then that some have managed to take Alex’s material and run with it fast and far whilst others are still struggling to get to first base?

I suspect that the Christmas holiday and the demands of friends and family have played some part, but there must be more to it than that?

As a psychotherapist I know that by far the greatest inhibitor of success is the limitation of the mind. The fact is that many of us aren’t ready to succeed and that means that we find ways to ’self-sabotage’ thus maintaining a ‘failure script’, because for us failure is ‘normal’ and normal is safe.

Your brain is composed of four components:

  • Your right brain handles patterns such as arrangement, rhythm, and harmony
  • Your left brain comments on your perceptions using syntax, words and logic
  • Your midbrain is emotional, reacting to stimuli it perceives as joyous or dangerous
  • Your brainstem is a stimulus-response system that may be easily conditioned

Unless you can persuade all four parts of your brain to work together to achieve your desires it’s practically impossible for you to achieve it. Moreover, even if you do achieve your target in all possibility something in your life will overturn your achievement, because you omitted it from your plan.

This will in turn return you to your previous lifestyle, and most likely you’ll then consider it your fate.

Yesterday I wrote at length about how I came to live on rent-free on a Mediterranean beach after adjusting my ‘mental template.’ I used a process that is defined as:

"Putting yourself consciously in charge by creating effective communication between your conscious and unconscious minds, by consciously transposing success from any part of your life into others where you consciously want to produce success, resolving self-defeating unconscious habit patterns into ones that support you and by creating effective conscious communication with the part of you that knows what’s right for you."

I figure that if you’re one of the students who is lagging behind in Alex Jeffreys’ Coaching Program then it’s not your fault, however you need to take some steps to focus-up and defeat whatever forces are impeding your progress before the pace changes gear next year. My recommendation to you is to read, and re-read, my previous post and then sign up for the free mini course at the bottom of the page. It will help you :-)

 
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Read the following quote from mit scientist stuart lichtman that changed my life:. what’s the reason why you haven’t yet achieved what you want?

Stuart Lichtman
Sometimes i learn by making mistakes." that’s it. if you do this consistently, you’ll feel better about yourself and your results will improve. the results will be gradual but profound. best success, stuart lichtman

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I bought Stuart Lichtman product in August 2006.. I got the free e-course from Stuart in 2004, and it take 2 year for me to decide to buy this product… I browse around, read this, buy that… until I came back, in bought his product.

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Opt in and get it. 3. Get the Tim Ferris bestseller book, “The 4 Hour Workweek”. The best book I have read in years. 4. Get Stuart Lichtman´s method “Cybernetic Transposition”. The real deal. A must-have for the rest of your life.

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2 comments - add yours
Kath Ibbetson

December 28, 2008

Hi Stephen
I love this post and you’re going straight on my blogroll.
I particularly like the notion that we need to be “consciously transposing success from any part of your life into others where you consciously want to produce success”
I’m sure I’m lagging behind but I have to be in touch with ” part of you that knows what’s right for you.” because I have physical restrictions due to illness. Now if I could get as far as achieving ‘The Four Hour Work Week’ I would reach my goal so that’s what I’m heading for. Fifteen years ago I was a very successful director of a billionm pound UK PLC but then I got sick and had to retire at the age of 32. However, I stil have a brain and I KNOW I can achieve anything I decide to do particularly with the tremendous support that this coaching group gives.
As I’ve said on my aabout page. “life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but my the moments that take our breath away”
Are you on Twitter - you should be coz I can imagine all sorts of inspiring tweets coming out of you !
Kath

Stephen Bray

December 28, 2008

Kath,

Do I know you? Instinctively I feel as if we’ve met? I’ve no idea how, or when, but I sense a very strong connection.

Anyway, yes I am to be found at http://twitter.com/stephen_bray and I’ve just outsourced the task of cleaning up my followers/following list so that I may follow more of my followers.

As for tweets, many are just plain down-to-earth if you come to follow me.

Anyway, I’m heading over to your blog now to find out more about you.

Thanks for visiting here.

Warm regards,

Stephen